“The first draft of anything is shit.” ― Ernest Hemingway
I think this truth can be applied to our life, and often to our relationships, as well.
The first stab at anything is nothing more than that.
A stab in the dark. A first attempt.
We act on instinct, repeating what we’ve learned.
Unconsciously living out the scripts and messages we’ve picked up from others, and have stored in our brain.
But perhaps it is time to start over again.
To start in an informed, and a more deliberate, way.
And as you think of starting over, you can chart out a course that’s a lot more consistent with the way you want to live. (Bearing in mind, we don’t control everything … And, certainly, we don’t control everyone.)
Below are some questions to help you figure what you want from life and, what you might need…
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